Every Now And Then...

...we have to have uncomfortable talks with those we love. We need to express hurt feelings or register dissatisfaction with the way things are going. I find, in many cases, it's important to set some ground rules. I'll list some of mine here, but I'd be very interested in hearing what some of your ground rules would be. Please add them to the comments. Here are mine:

• Turn off cell phones, TV's, etc.
• Try not to interrupt
• Try to remain objective
• Don't yell or throw things
• Try to keep going, even if it gets a bit uncomfortable, but also know when it's time to give each other space and cool off
• Try to identify the problem before offering solutions
• Respect each other's opinions and emotions; honor them as valid
• Promise to keep everything said in the fight confidential; don't go running to tell tales out of school
• Don't roll your eyes
• Don't point fingers
• No name calling
• Come up with a plan for the future that all can agree to
• If someone starts crying, immediately call a time out and hug that person til they stop
• Keep your values in your back pocket and don't compromise them for the sake of peace and quiet

Have I missed any? What would you add?